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    Big Girls Don’t Cry

    I used to recite the last line of Fergie’s 2006 hit song every time I was hurt and overwhelmed. There were days when I locked myself in… Read more “Big Girls Don’t Cry”

    March 9, 2020March 19, 2020 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    Why Are We PREPARING for Bad Marriages?

    If there is one thing that exhausts me on social media, it is the volume of opinions that are rammed down people’s throats as facts. There are… Read more “Why Are We PREPARING for Bad Marriages?”

    July 4, 2018February 18, 2019 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    Perhaps This Is Why Some Marriages Break Down

    Maybe….just maybe… marriages break down for one simple reason no one is paying attention to. I had an interesting epiphany as I conversed with a friend last… Read more “Perhaps This Is Why Some Marriages Break Down”

    September 13, 2017February 18, 2019 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    Have You Put ‘The One’ For You On Hold?

    I’d like to think everyone is seeking a partner they can spend forever with. No matter how nonchalant we may feel about serious relationships, there is a… Read more “Have You Put ‘The One’ For You On Hold?”

    July 17, 2016February 19, 2019 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    Rock the Boat

    You’ve probably heard this saying many times…”what’s good for the goose is good for the gander”. This should be an euphemism for “rock the boat” Let me… Read more “Rock the Boat”

    November 9, 2015November 29, 2015 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    “Lower Your Standards”

    This is one advice I think every single girl has heard at some point in her life. When people ask you why you’re single (by the way… Read more ““Lower Your Standards””

    September 23, 2015September 23, 2015 by Demilade Fayemiwo

    Power & Relationships (1): The Place of Power in Relationships

    I never really gave much thought to the role power plays in relationships until recently. I always just dismissed the idea that power could have a negative… Read more “Power & Relationships (1): The Place of Power in Relationships”

    March 2, 2015February 19, 2019 by Demilade Fayemiwo

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